Must I buy a new one every time? Anyone want them? |
1.
RE-USABLE
TOYS – On the plus side for baby number 1, she gets mountains of brand new
everything; toys, books, games, puzzles, DVDs, Barbies, ponies. You name it, she’s got it. New. On the
downside, she has to share it all with a slobbering infant. The upside for the slobbering infant is
that she gets to play with things that are just beyond her skillset, making
her a fast learner and turning her into a baby genius. The downside is they may
be pre-coated in slobber and year-old mashed banana and if they actually still
work, they’re likely to be in need of new batteries, which Dad is never going
to replace.
2.
HAND-ME-DOWNS
– Baby girl number two is the unwitting recipient of tonnes of used and unused
clothing. While previously
spewed-on Bonds baby rompers may not bother her as a 6 month old, the jeggings
that weren’t cool enough for Miss 6 and the stockings that made her legs itchy
just give Miss 5 the shits. The real winner here is that mecca for children’s
fashion, Target, because with the usual pangs of motherly guilt, I inevitably over-shop
for Miss 5 during every 20% Off Kids Clothing Sale, only to return days later
when I realise Miss 6 will be walking the streets practically naked in
comparison to her decked out fashionista younger sister.
3.
BIRTHDAY
CANDLES & CAKES – Do you re-use the red and white numeric candle you’ve bought
every year for your firstborn? It’s
only been used for a moment before being blown out with 15 kids’ spit and
shoved back in the cupboard, but when your next child turns one there’s
something that screams ‘TIGHT-WAD’ if you re-use it. Ditto the cake. Does it matter if they get different
versions of Dolly Varden or different colours of the Princess Castle? Of course
it does! They’re indi-bloody-viduals, and you can’t fool them with a different
shade of icing. So far I’ve clocked one Dolly Varden, one princess castle, one
sand castle, ponyland, a fairy garden, the Number 1, a toadstool house and a
replica of Boo Boo – my second child’s teddy bear. Seriously, I'm surprised and impressed myself!
4.
SCHOOL
UNIFORMS – Number 2 will be starting school next year, presenting
another conundrum; new or recycled uniform? When your first one starts
school, you love how perfect, girlish and nerdy she looks in her navy and white
dress with matching hat and little socks.
The winter uniform is even more exciting because the navy and grey
pinafore, hat and stockings remind you of the French girl in the Petit Miam
commercial, but altogether it amounts to about $250 and you know it’s just going
to get trashed and washed and washed trashed and tumbled dried forty thousand
times. Surely last years’ stuff is
OK, isn’t it? Then again, if number two was a
boy, this wouldn’t even be an issue, would it? Can you see where I’m going with this? Can someone please get me my wallet?
5.
SEEING
DOUBLE – The negatives: Sometimes, they just loooove the same thing. It’s usually something very annoying
and faddish. Dizzy dancers, Zhu
Zhu pets, Mermaid Barbie or baby Care Bears in balls. This means you have to buy two of each, otherwise someone’s
going to end up with a patch of hair missing (Yes. Girls pull hair.
It’s not cliché, it’s very real and painful). This is costly and doubly annoying when one sibling loses or
breaks their precious object and the other refuses to share the surviving one. The
positives: Sometimes you get two for one deals, so you can avoid arguments AND
save money. This applies to meals
and transport and extends to toys and clothes. Basically, you buy two but in different
colours or styles. Unfortunately when it comes to clothing, this leads to a
certain kind of Von Trapp-ism, which I’m sure is a mega downer for the
kids!
The moral of the story? I don't think there is one this week. Just that whatever your family gender mix, there are going to be crazy moments, blissful moments, arguments, shared toys and shared spit. As long as everyone retains their hair, everything is fine. Except for Dads, who might have no choice in the matter.
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